Hi, I’m Romilly.

I'm a relationship recovery coach and author of 21 Red Flags: Spotting The Signs Of An Unhealthy Relationship: Identify Patterns, Break Cycles, Make Changes.

This important book is a practical guide for anyone questioning if they're in a toxic relationship, and for everyone wanting to avoid one.

The book is for you if you've ever wondered:

Why something in your relationship just feels "off"

Whether your partner’s behaviour is unfair, abusive, or if you're over-reacting

When you'll feel yourself again and where the old "you" went.

I also coach women that have gone through or left a tricky relationship.

The research for the book led me to become an ICF-certified relationship recovery coach and trauma-informed coach, providing specialist support to women navigating - or in the aftermath of - a toxic relationship.

I specialise in helping people to recognise the characteristics of toxic relationships, respond by breaking patterns and changing behaviours within their relationships, and reclaim a life on their own terms.

Yes! I'd love a free discovery call

I guide people to:

Recognise the signs of a toxic relationship
Respond and create coping strategies if you are in a difficult relationship
Reclaim your identity after an unhealthy relationship

If you feel you’ve been emotionally, spiritually, and financially steamrolled, I get it. The good news is, transformation is waiting on the other side. With support, understanding and coaching you will regain your vitality and sense of self.